This is the a screen shot of Lift a habit tracking app. The green spots are the active sex days, the orange spots are our recent activity.
Here is a more histogram like take. The above doesn’t exclusively track penetrative sex, we consider cunilingus, felatio and entry to be all part of our sex stats. Masturbation and touching one another in a sexual way involving genital touching isn’t included. As you can see there is a mid month lack of activity, that correlates to DW’s period.
The histogram is interesting in that it shows we are sexually active approximately 50% of the month. The weekly shows the frequency is greater than three times, mostly four times. I think that this is quite good for a ten year married couple with two primary schoolers who have undergone a lot of stressors.
We had a pretty good sex day yesterday, mid afternoon I went down on DW, I licked and sucked her clit and pussy for half an hour, soft and slow and exploratory to start with, licking, kissing and sucking every part of her bits. Getting my tongue into every fold of her lips, running it up the edge of one lip before gently sucking her clit and then down the other lip. Nuzzling my nose right into her hole and using a bit of pressure to run it up to her clit. Then it was into the orgasm routine. After all of the former stuff DW is sufficiently relaxed and has a sexy (dirty) fantasy going so that we settle into the pattern that gets her to cum. This consists of me circling her clit clockwise soft and slow building to firm and faster as she’s on the cusp of cumming. I don’t know how long her actual cum lasted once it started, but it felt that she was quivering and shaking for a significant number of seconds.
After it had happened I settled back to admire her pussy, there was a little river of white pussy juice trickling all the way down her bum crack onto the sofa. It’s quite fascinating watching the change in her pussy from neat small light pink lips to darker pink engorged lips at the end, with her hole open and relaxed. This would have been the perfect time to enter her as she was aroused and open enough so that the width of my cock wouldn’t be too uncomfortable to her. Sadly, it was not to be as I had to go and pick up the children.
Later, in the evening once the children were in bed and settled, she blew me, one of those long slow get me really hard blowjobs. As I’m nearly fifty my erections aren’t what they used to be. Up until 45 I used to get really rock hard, now I have a varicose vein in my left hand side spermatic cord, it affects how big and hard I get now. DW went to town taking my mind of the varicose vein pain and making me really swell. She likes to spend a lot of time flicking the tip of her tongue on the underside of my glans until I’m really swollen and is big hard and shiny. Once its like that she then concentrates on using her mouth and hands in unison. This time she chose only to use one hand on the base of my shaft, sometimes she’ll use both so it looks like she’s playing one potato, two potato with my cock, while she has the glans in her mouth. Is I said it was just one hand so I could watch my cock disappearing into her mouth. This is how she likes to make me cum so she gets a mouthful. It’s bloody sexy and I’d quite like to video it to watch at a later date… but I won’t for privacy issues and the fact she’s not happy about that. So she made me cum, I filled her mouth with my spunk and we then snowballed. It’s nice doing that as we get to share the taste of an orgasm and she’s not a spitter or a swallower.
It was a lovely cum for me. I was nicely relaxed, I’d emptied a huge load and was feeling that sleepy delicious feeling of the post cum bliss.
After watching some TV and chatting we went to bed. I have to admit that I’m a bit crap once we get into bed, every night we have a sexy cuddle before going to sleep, just being next to DW in bed gets me hard and she’s not really into being prodded in the lower back with my stiffy. Also I love touching her body, caressing her boob, running my fingers down to her tight neat bits (several pornstars have paid huge amounts for labioplasty to get their pussys looking just like DW’s). She had a bit of a complain about my juvenile behaviour and we settled into boob kissing. So a little cupping, gentle squeezing and kissing, she pulled me on top of her, lifted and opened her legs, I tore her Brazilian knickers off her and plunged in. Well not quite, she was aroused and wet but it still needed a bit of jiggling and prodding to enter her. She ow-ied a bit about the width, but this was a bit more spontaneous than we planned so no foreplay to get her ready.
I was a bit mean at first going for a bit of hard rough sex. Our interpretation of rough, is me going all the way in. Past her cervix and going as deep as I can nearly to her belly. Rough sex for us isn’t about choking, slapping or hair pulling. I feel concerned that young women now are taking abusive porn as a descriptor for a vigorous rough fuck and not experiencing a good deep hard fucking, if they want to know what pain in sex is like, DW will happily tell you about bruised cervix and internal belly bruising.
So I pulled back until my glans was on her internal cum spot and a bit of thrusting and cock wiggling later she exploded into a high pitched squeaky cum noise, finished with a silent scream as the orgasm aftershocks hit her and her body blushed scarlet. I’m not sorry, I’m fucking proud that I can fuck a woman eleven years younger than me into a monster orgasm. I just wish that I was younger fitter so I could perform like this more often. I can only fuck like this now a few times a week, when we got it together is was several times a night. A hard vigorous fuck reminds me of doing interval sprint training on steep gradients, my heart felt like it was going to pound out of my chest, DW thought I was going to kark it.
It was a good fuck, a very good fuck, but it makes me wonder if that was one of the issues around my lack of LTR’s before DW (I haven’t done any fitness training in eight years). As an example, there was this one woman I was dating and we spent a long weekend at the Royal Hotel Bournemouth. I was at the peak of my training schedule at the end of a weekend in the bedroom, she was complaining about everything hurting and her legs aching too much. I guess this is why DW connected, all of her prior partners couldn’t satisfy her and in hindsight I’m guessing that my sexo was a little too much for the ones I wanted to be with, so in retrospect DW and I were a perfect connection.
As always after a night of vigorous fucking I’m becoming conscious of my age and lack of fitness.